Excuses for not dating someone
It is a trial by fire through which all of us have, at some point, reluctantly trudged on the way to (hopefully) a life full of happiness beside the person with whom we’re meant to be.I’ve had to deal with my fair share of excuses as to why a girl didn’t want to date me.Rumor has it that they’re misogynistic, controlling and philanderers.But let’s be real, what ethnic group of men can we not say that about?So if you’re thinking about dating a Jamaican man or you just want to be entertained for the next couple of slides, let’s dive in.Before we get down to the nitty, gritty can we just agree that not all Jamaican men, or all men in general for that matter, are the same. So what is this Yankee girl going to tell you about dating a Jamaican.And in my short life, there are few things I’ve picked up when it comes to relationship dynamics.
You will be called for jury duty one day – I guarantee it. Buddhists get off jury duty – My friend, a Buddhist, has gotten off jury duty 3 times just by being Buddhists.
If the state, city, or county knows that you exist, you will get a summons to appear for jury duty at least several times in your life. Spill your darkest secrets to the lawyers – Ever been the victim of a crime that could sway your opinion of the case at hand? It’s against his religion to pass judgement on others. – Use a George Carlin line and tell the judge you can tell if someone is guilty just by looking at them.
And while we really should all be willing to do our civic duty when called upon, sometimes the timing or location of said duty doesn’t work for us at all. But alcoholics who are drunk at 8am will probably be sent home early. Be biased – Be biased against the crime, the location, the race of the perp, the color of the rug in the courtroom. I am sure there are clauses in other religions that could also be used. Be a student – If jury duty could affect your grades or your chance at graduation, you can probably get out of serving just by asking.
How do you get to know someone without being nosy or rude?
And how do you figure out how a person feels about you — or tell them how you feel about them — without either of you feeling uncomfortable?